Falling out of your device [turtling]

A few common problems i get asked multiple times per day. See below information information. Goddess Valentina

Fall Out: Falling out of a Chastity Device

The terms Fall Out, Pull Out, Slip Out and Slip Off all describes what happens when your flaccid penis falls out of the your chastity device, between the tube or cage and the cock ring. This can happen to most men who are “grow-ers” rather than “show-ers”. The cause of this, often referred to as “Turtle Head Syndrome”, happens naturally and causes your penis to protect itself from situations such as cold weather by shrinking and retracting.



Ensure that you’ve the smallest possible gap between the cage and ring of your device.

To help reduce Pull Out chastity devices that are a little curved in shape keep the penis in a downwards position tend to be good.

Devices with cages or tubes offering a nice snug diameter for the shaft of your penis are helpful too.

The fit of the ring is all important too. The ring must be a good fit, not too large. A ring that’s much too big for you is certainly going cause the whole device to slip off your testicles and penis.

In Practice the Goal is a little difficult to attain:

Not all chastity devices offer adjustment for individual fitting between the cage and ring, where your balls hang. You should pay attention to this design element when buying a chastity device.

Devices made of metal tend to be made with a gap of about 6 to 8 mm, which seems accurate for most men.

As mentioned above, the right size ring is key to a good secure fitting, helping to prevent “Slip Off”, and reduce “Pull Out”. Higher value devices are usually purchased with just one ring, to keep your costs down, so it’s vital that you measure yourself correctly for your ring. As mentioned above if it’s too large the whole device can slip off. However, also be aware of the health implications if your ring is too tight: you mustn’t constrict blood flow.

IF YOU HAVE A CB-3000, CURVE, CB-6000 OR CB-6000S:

Lower production costs of these polycarbonate devices means that they can be packaged with a variety of rings and spacers, which is great for finding your individual fitting. You need to find the best combination of spacer and ring for your body. Ideally you need the wear the largest ring you can (that won’t fall off) and the smallest spacer. Experiment with different combinations for several days. You may also discover the your ideal combination of ring/spacer is different in Summer and Winter!


If you have a CB-6000 or a CB-6000s an add-on device such as the “KSD-G3” from UberKinky may help reduce or prevent the possibility of Pull Out. You can just see the KSD in the photo. sitting inside the cage on top of the penis.



Hygiene - another common question

Everyday Hygiene and Personal Care When Wearing a Chastity Device Long Term:

One of the best tips to help keep you and your chastity device nice and clean and fresh is to shower daily with plenty of soapy water. This doesn’t mean you need to remove the device every day. Using a cleansing swab or cotton bud with a drop of antibacterial liquid soap to get inside your device helps hygiene and reduces the build up of unhealthy bacteria and unpleasant odours. Ensure you wash off all soap residue to help prevent irritation. After washing you can gently pat around your self with a soft towel and allow everything to dry before dressing (some men use a hair dryer on a very cool setting to aid drying). As a alternative to showering a Wash Bottle with a fine jet spray is absolutely perfect. You can get these from Amazon.

If you use a lubricant each day inside you tube, daily cleansing is an ideal opportunity to remove this. Some lubricants particularly those that are oil based such as Baby Oil can cause a build up of bacteria. Regularly washing off then reapplying with a Q Tip, cotton bud, or cleansing swab will help keep bacteria to a minimum.

Weekly Cleaning of Your Chastity Device:

In addition to your personal daily hygiene routine, you should remove your chastity device (under supervision of course!) on a weekly basis to give it a good clean. Start by washing it thoroughly using anti-bacterial soap, and allow it to dry. Then finish off with a spray or two of a high quality cleaner such as Eros Cleaner. This gives the finishing touch to your hygiene routine. Such cleaners have antimicrobial action to combat bacteria, viruses and fungus build up, and are a good disinfectant – but check the label of your sex toy cleaner to make sure it is up to this high standard of cleanliness.

Weekly Through Cleaning and Inspection:

Weekly removal of your chastity device for cleaning provides the ideal opportunity for you to tend to your own personal care. During these weekly sessions you should attentively inspect your cock and balls, if you notice any sores or irritation you will need to refrain from wearing your belt or device until healing has taken place. Sometimes using a cream such as E45 or Nivea can help keep your skin where the cock ring sits all nice and smooth.

emergency key [with or without a keyholder]

Access to Release

Getting out of a chastity device in Situations of Absolute Emergency:

Most male chastity devices are provided with 2 keys. If your device has just the one key you ought to either have a second cut, buy a new good quality padlock with 2 keys, or if it’s a unique specialist key buy another from your chastity belt manufacturer, then hand them over to your keyholder:

* One for your Goddess to keep.
* The other to be locked away, but made available to you in situations of absolute necessity.

What determines “absolute necessity” is a question of hot debate, in general it’s considered to be a medical emergency situation. It can be whatever is best for your keyholder and you.

Where or How to Store your emergency Key:

Some things your and your keyholder might like to consider when deciding how to store your emergency key.

Does it need to be stored somewhere that’s ….

  1. portable so that you have access at all times

  2. small enough to fit into your briefcase, pocket or glove box of your car

  3. secure enough to give you time to think about you’re doing. To consider “Is this really an emergency situation?”. “Is it essential that I unlock my device now?”. “Am I frustrated and need sexual relief”. Giving you the option to rethink what you’re about to do and to leave the key where it belongs!

  4. breakable to gain access to your key in an absolute medical emergency situation, even without your keyholder’s permission.

  5. high security and can only be accessed with keyholder permission.

If your emergency key is secured in a high security combination lock what will you do if you keyholder is not contactable and cannot give you the combination code?

If your keyholder feels it best that you carry the emergency key with you so that you can get to it without her help you could:

1. Laminate your key between 2 credit card size pieces of plastic, you could include a note from your keyholder too. This will be easy to carry in your pocket. Although you’ll be able to get out of your chastity device you’ll need to cut the plastic to remove the key, so any unauthorised use of your chastity device won’t go unnoticed.

2. A more secure method would be to use an emergency protable key box with a combination lock. Your keyholder can select her own combination code and secure the key inside. It’s small enough to be portable inside a sports bag, brief case or in the glove box of your car. If you need release and your keyholder is not with you, telephone, text or email her for the combination code. If your keyholder is not contactable and you’re in an absolute emergency situation, you could take a really strong hammer to it, however your escape attempt will be very obvious.

Emergency Key without a Keyholder:

If you are in chastity and without a keyholder it’s a little difficult to maintain enough will power to stay locked up in times of great sexual frustration. One very low cost technique to is to freeze your key in an ice cream size tub full of water. It will take some time to thaw out, and give you the opportunity to consider if you really need release.

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